Congratulations! You’re engaged! Possibly the first thing you thought of while you were admiring your ring was, “What kind of wedding will I have?” Perhaps you already know. Maybe you’ve envisioned a grand, traditional ceremony in the perfect shades of pink since you were five. Or, your romantic heart wants a one-of-a-kind shabby chic event at a rustic barn, accented with wildflowers and old watering pots. Maybe you and your fiancé envision a slick, modern kind of wedding with an edgy twist. Whatever your dream day looks like, selecting a theme is only the first of many decisions.
So – why pick a theme first? Because it helps organize the flow of the wedding. With direction, you can proceed with your wedding plans without taking unnecessary (and costly) detours along the way. And knowing your theme will help streamline decisions about flowers, food, the cake, even photographers! Your wedding will have a sense of purpose (beyond the obvious) and you’ll be able to concentrate on creating your dream day with the types of details that complement each other, rather than compete.
A word of caution: avoid kitschy. Stay focused on the big picture, not the little details. Balance is a key ingredient to making your theme work without being over-the-top.
Here are a few things to consider when selecting a memorable theme for your wedding:
1. Does your idea reflect BOTH of your personalities and interests?
2. Is your idea realistic for your budget (i.e., do you dream of “bling” on a dime-sized budget)?
3. Is your idea something that everyone will “get?” If you decide on an obscure idea that no one is familiar with, it might fall flat.
You may also want to consult with a wedding planner about your ideas. While you may worry about the cost of planning services, a professional can help you stay focused on the big picture and will help you find the perfect vendors to bring your theme to life!
Again, congratulations on your upcoming wedding! We want to hear all about it, so please share your big day with us by emailing info@i-do-boutique.com or join us on Facebook at www.Facebook.com/i-do-Boutique.
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